It's Never ToO L@te...

Life has its own designs and patterns for  each of  us to  live by, every  person in this world has his own sets of bundles of  joy and sorrows. Needless to  say  It actually  is the crux of life :) At times all of us  think  that  "Had it  been like this , How  wonderful it  would  have been!" but how many  times we actually  do something  to  make the things like that  to  happen..

Well  It  so  happened with  a girl.....She was a happy  and cheerful person having an aura of positivity  around her...She was just  too  strong to  give up  on any  hard comings in her life...but God  has his own ways  to test  people and her testing times started, She had a serious injury when she met  with an accident on her way to Office, She  got  crippled due to it....She underwent the Treatment for  almost  an year...meanwhile  she had lost  touch of  everything...Her friends were gone and got  busy  in their lives ....Everyone could  be sympathetic but  how many  are empathetic for people in today's world. This  was the  case with  her as well.

She had to  start  from the scratch ...That  injury  had made her weak both  physically  and mentally, but  as it's  said people can't change their basic nature...Her optimism took over her miserable life then and she started being Happy as It's a belief of positive people that If we are happy , More Happiness gets attracted towards us and vice versa.

She enjoyed watching movies , writing poems for herself, Sooner due to  her healthy and happy attitude, She recovered from her injury  and started valuing life even more. There was nothing which could deter her to  be Happy. She then decided to  infect  people with this happiness and smile and that  joy  was inexpressible in words.

She had become more beautiful as she had got the jewel of smile which  she had promised to herself that  she will always wear. Even Life was offering her more happiness ...she soon got married to  her prince charming who loved her deeply..She got a good job where she soon became the most  sought employee...Her life seems to  be a great living example of  boomerang of life. what  you give around comes around. So Be Happy  & Spread Happiness .:)

Faliure Aka Success

“Failure, is in a sense, the highway to Successions, for it leads us to seek earnestly for our goals”

This line has a lot of meaning embedded in it. Almost every person in his life faces a failure.  Infact many great men had initially tasted the bitter fruit of Failure before getting the orchard of success and this is what the above line conveys.

It’s a human tendency that whatever he gets easily, he starts taking it for granted and many a times this is the reason of his failure because he doesn’t value what he gets easily and God takes that from him and many a times  what we value the most just slips out of our hand how hard we had tried to keep them, well this leads to much more disappointment than anything else but we should not take it on our heart that we are a failure instead we should take it on to our mind that we have to prove that we can succeed …. So what if we are facing hurdles….infact hurdles makes a man strong and perhaps you are the lucky child of God that he has chosen you to make strong for the adversities of life… It probably might be your test and as you’ll clear it you will be rewarded with such a life, which you have never dreamt of, so much happiness and contentment surrounding you ….It’s not so that people don’t have problems, but at the time of disappointments and adversaries, it’s just that our problems look like mountains hard to pass and this leads to frustration with everyone who are close to us, thereby giving them trouble too….. I know it’s not easy to keep calm in such a situation but this is the only thing which is requisite at this point.

It’s a fact that whatever happens, happens for a cause, a cause that is known only to God, we just have to keep faith in him. Since you were happy before you got sorrows so why are we worried about sorrows now, this phase will also pass by….. Now the need of hour is to believe on our inner strength and to check our limits, just face this situation like an arduous soldier.

Here It is worth mentioning about Mr. Pataudi who is honoured as the youngest captain of our Indian team, he at his age of 22 met with a severe accident when he was at the peak of his career and lost his one eye. Everybody was nonplussed whether he’ll continue as being a cricketer or quit!! But instead of focusing on what he has lost he focused on what he possess now and with this attitude he proved himself as one of the best Indian cricketer and beat the challenge posed by the time in front of him. This is what we also should do, instead of repenting and mourning about mishappenings we should look for the ray of hope in the darkness and should always remember that it’s not altitude but attitude that matters!  There are two more stories supporting this fact mentioned as follows

AT age 10, Julio was a little Spanish boy with a dream. He wanted to play football for his favourite club – Real Madrid! He played all day, practised hard and became a very good goalkeeper.

By the time he was 20, the childhood dream was beginning to come true. He was signed up to play for Real Madrid. And most football pundits were predicting that young Julio would soon become Spain’s No.1 goalkeeper.

One evening in 1963, Julio and his friends set out in a car for a night of fun. It turned out to be a night of horror, as the car they were travelling in met with a terrible accident. And young Julio – soon-to-be star goalkeeper of Real Madrid and Spain – found himself in hospital, paralysed from the waist downwards. Doctors were unsure if he’d ever be able to walk again. They were pretty sure he would never play football again.

The road to recovery was long and painful. Julio spent the night thinking about what might have been. His mind was filled with sorrow, anger, regret. To lessen the pain, he took to writing songs and poems at night, with a tear in his eye and a pen in his hand. And to increase the dexterity in his hand, a nurse gave him a guitar. He had never touched a guitar in his life! But soon Julio began strumming the guitar and also singing the songs that he had been writing.
After being bed-ridden for 18 months, Julio gradually picked up the pieces of his life. Five years after the accident, Julio entered a singing competition – and won the first prize - singing a song called “Life goes on the same!”
He never played football again. But with a guitar in hand and a song on his lips, Julio Iglesias went on to become one of the top ten singers in the history of music, selling over 300 million albums. Just imagine. If not for that accident, Julio Iglesias would have probably been just another goalkeeper in Europe!
What happened to Julio that evening in 1963 could happen to any of us. A setback or an accident – or failure - can often appear to be the end of the road. But it seldom is. When one door shuts, usually another one opens. It’s just that we get so busy staring at the closed door and banging our head against it that we fail to spot the other door opening. Learning to cope with failure is often the first – and most critical step – towards success.
Never let failure impact your sense of self-belief. You are a star, with unique talents. Didn’t clear the entrance exam to engineering college? Maybe you weren’t meant to be an engineer. That’s all.
Even Albert Einstein didn’t clear the entrance exam to join a polytechnic. But he didn’t do too badly, did he? Maybe there is a better, brighter career waiting for you. The trick is to move on and like Julio, tell yourself that “Life goes on the same”.
Several years ago, a bright little boy in a government school in Kerala had a dream. He wanted to be a doctor. He did well in school, and everybody was convinced that this little boy would someday become a fine doctor. He wrote the entrance exam – but failed to make the cut! He was devastated.
His parents were shocked. He went on to do a BSc then a Masters degree, worked with an IT firm – and later went on to found Infosys. His name? Kris Gopalakrishnan, CEO, Infosys. Just imagine. 

Good lesson to learn from Julio. And from Kris. When one door shuts, another one opens. Just believe in yourself. Next time you are faced with a failure or a setback, look out for the other door. Push it open. And go find your place in the sun!

When God says Yes it gives you GOOD, when it says NO it gives you better and when it says You WAIT it gives you BESTJ so just don’t think that if it has said No to you for something you wish it probably be planning to give you Better than what you desire and if you are not getting it for a long time then definitely it’s something Best you are about to get……Just Be happy for everything …..It’s quite difficult but not impossible….!!! It’s another chance that you have got…..Always give your best ….!!!! Rest stay assured you’ll get what you really deserve and which is really better for you….!!!! Just Trust him….. He can never do anything wrong with good people…..just be good and your goodness will be reciprocated to you by HIM…!!!!

Zindagi

Zindagi mein iss tarah tum aaye ho
Pyar ki ek saugat humare liye tum laaye ho
Yun khoobsoorat bna dogey zindagi andaaza nahin tha,
Iss qadar meri zindagi ki bahaar ban kar aaye ho

Duur hote ho tum agar ik pal bhi
Aansun aankhon se chalakne lagte hain..
Sochte hain jab tumhare bare mein kabhi
Dil mein sau jazbaat mehakne lagte hain...

Har waqt dil mein teri aarzoo rehti hai,
Har waqt labon pe terei guftgu rehti hai,
Kaise btaun kya haal ho gya hai,
Meri saanson ko bhi ab teri saanson ki darkaar rehti hai...

Duur na jaana humse kabhi
Bss itni si guzaarish hai tumse,
Zindagi ki dhoop chhaon mein mera haath na chhodoge,
Bss jaan itni si ummeed hai tumse.....

I MIGHT BE....

I might be stupid, i might be wise

i might be cute , i might be rude

but whatsoever i am dear,

It's for sure....My love for you is so very much pure

I might be chattering i might be silent

i might be good, i might be bad

but whatsoeevr i am dear

it's a promise deep in my heart....our ways can never be apart

I might be a desert i might be an ocean

i might go along with my emotion

but what so ever i am dear

it's my love for you......that makes me happy when i am feeling blue

I might be close, i might be far

i might be sweet, i might be harsh

but what so ever i am dear

I can assure you my life ....I'll be beside you wether it be awhile or infinte mile...

I love you....<3<3<3<3

Destiny Rules!!!

hey guys....

Do you believe in Destiny?
Well I bet many of you will definitely be !! So since destiny has brought you to my blog, let's first talk about it....well for that i wanna ask you what is destiny?? probably your answer might be it's something on which we don't have any control but still it rules our life emphatically. some of you might think it's nothing ...it's all our deeds that come up to you as a fruit well i agree with both coz i feel if you do good you'll get it reciprocated sooner or later... and sometimes you get a b'ful surprise or a sudden shock on which you have no control... again destiny;-)!!

Destiny has brought for me "My destiny" in a very destined manner....:)

Well I was in last year of my engineering, aspiring for the campus placement as the news was in air that a big mnc is yet to conduct a campus in our college, well the day came and destiny bestowed me that cherishable moment of being campus placed....well the life was going on smooth and full of happiness and contentment all around....the day came when i had to join my dream company....the day seem to be more beautiful than it had ever looked in my entire life till then....so many dreams , so many hopes, full of excitement and aspirations in my eyes could easily be noticed...i was so happy then..!!!

During my stay over there i made friends with whom i have very sweet memories, those months of my life were so scintillating that they'll always brighten my face whenever i'll remember those moments.....as destiny had written my stay over there for a short period of 3 months, something happened and i had to let go my dreams just like the sand held in a fist...all my happiness my smile, my laughter had turned into as if all my belongings have been taken from me for ever....remorse,remorse was the only thing which i used to do.......i went back home and my parents rejuvenated my hope,my courage to fight with destiny and my faith in myself ......here what i would like to mention that destiny had made me stronger and that strength will always help me to emerge out of certain obstacles of life which probably i could not face earlier..well thanks destiny to make me strong enough to fight with you...!!:-)

Marriage ...evryone thinks of it and evryone dreams of it...many people would disagree with me but still majority of normal people who believe in living life to the fullest will agree.....I too had always dreamt of THE BIG day in my life , but after all this i had thought not to get married so soon.....I had all my focus on my career, I wanted to regain what i had lost but again destiny took a beautiful turn.....i got what i had lost but along with it i got what i didn't expect at all....especially at that point of time....there came a proposal for me....I thought it was a dream going on which i was just enjoying it as a dream only but ....hey it was a damn beautiful reality....:-)!!! I found My Mr. Right ....it's destiny ...you get the most cherished person when you least expect...and when such things happen smile just get sticks to your lips and never fades away....!!! Destiny has blessed me with the love of my life...and M lovin it...:)